I have so much on my mind lately about all of the things I want to do with my life. There are things that I decided to do very early in my life. Some might say too early. I was married at the age of 18, an age where most teens are looking forward to freedom, college, parties and experimentation. Why? you might ask and the answer is simple, I was young, inexperienced and of course I was a know it all. I swore I knew what I was doing back then. I believed with all my heart that it was the right move for me. Not withstanding I married and it lasted fifteen years and I got three beautiful children out of it. Would I do it again? Do I recommend it? Absolutely not. Why? Because we have so very much to learn that we could not possibly hope to understand by the simple age of 18. Still there are some that will make the mistake regardless of my two cents. Now Back to me....

 

 

I must say i have been pondering this subject for a minute now. Not so much the art of truth as the art of true friendship and what it truly looks like. All those who know me and hold me dear know that when it comes to me, what you see is what you get. I have no f**kin bones to pick, no pretenses to put forth or bullsh*t to sling. I am just me. I am known to tell every friend before i believe they will go that far my favorite line " If you don't want the truth, don't ask me." And you best best trust and believe that if you ask me it's comin’ at ya. I don't waste time stroking egos. I'd rather be  celebrating truth, that's just me. Take me or leave me for my motto is, if you don’t pay my bills or sleep in my bed, missing you will take a mighty long time kid!!